that-thingyoudo asked: Thanks for the help! But wait, I'm confused on that first part you said; did you mean that you do get help when you're married, or you don't because you're LGBT? I didn't know if that was a typo or something, haha. Just clarify that for me if that's alright :) Do Guard members get deployed all over the country? Or just wherever? And I'm assuming you have no say in where you go right?

I mean that those in LGBT marriages do not get the same benefits as a same sex couple marriage would get. Guard members get sent anywhere, but lately Afghanistan and Kuwait mostly other than your home unit once a month.. Regular Army has much more of a selection.